Your Dream Life Together Starts Here

The journey from
“me” to “we.”

A transformative 3-day retreat for couples ready to build a thriving relationship that lasts.

Becoming Us is a 3-day immersive retreat for couples who are recently married or preparing to be—designed to give you the tools, insights, and experiences to lay a solid foundation for your life together.

Imagine entering your marriage with clarity, support, and the knowledge that you’re both co-creating something sacred and intentional. Picture love that deepens over time—grounded in mutual understanding, emotional presence, and a shared vision.

This retreat invites you to co-create your relationship bubble—a living, breathing space that holds the “us” in your union. Over three days, you’ll receive a well-stocked backpack full of practical tools and soulful practices to carry with you on your journey forward.

This is more than just preparation—it’s a celebration of love and partnership, a conscious beginning to the life you're building together.

Who Is This For?

Becoming Us is ideal for couples who:

Are engaged or recently married
Want a meaningful, non-religious premarital experience
Seek emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy
Are ready to begin their partnership with clarity, depth, and intention

What Makes
Becoming Us Unique?

This retreat blends the best of modern relationship science and ancient wisdom—drawing from psychology, anthropology, somatic coaching, and tantra. You’ll explore connection and intimacy not just as concepts, but as practices you can embody, communicate, and sustain.

What You’ll Experience

Over the course of the retreat, you and your partner will learn:

Self-Discovery & Authenticity – Stay rooted in who you are while growing in partnership.
Sacred Partnership – Understand the emotional and spiritual purpose of your union, and how to honor it every day.
Communication & Connection – Learn to communicate with clarity and compassion, and cultivate deeper emotional intimacy.
Conflict Resolution Tools – Navigate challenges with grace using powerful techniques like the Imago model.
Understanding Your Dynamic – Gain insight into your unique relationship patterns and how to support each other through them.
Love, Intimacy & Sacred Sexuality – Explore love languages, sexual blueprints, and tantric practices to deepen physical and emotional intimacy.

This is your chance to not just manage your relationship, but to thrive together—cultivating deep love, passion, and lasting partnership.

You’ll learn techniques rooted in:

Psychology: Tools like the Imago Model to help you navigate conflict and strengthen communication.
Anthropology: Insights into how culture, values, and shared purpose shape successful partnerships.
Tantra and Somatic Practices: Embodied tools to deepen your intimacy and connection on all levels—emotional, spiritual, and physical.

This retreat goes beyond theory. It’s an immersive experience filled with hands-on practices, guided reflections, and meaningful conversations to strengthen your bond and set you up for lifelong success.

What’s Included

During this 3-day retreat, you and your partner will embark on a journey that includes:

Self-Discovery Sessions: Exercises to explore your individual strengths, values, and desires.
Workshops on Key Relationship Topics: Practical sessions covering finances, parenting, intimacy, and more.
Conflict Resolution Tools: Frameworks like the Imago model to navigate challenges with compassion and understanding.
Intimacy Practices: Guided experiences to nurture emotional and physical connection, including sexual blueprints.
Reflection and Integration: Opportunities to journal, process, and integrate your learnings as a couple.
Check-In Frameworks: Tools for six-month and yearly check-ins to ensure ongoing growth and connection.
2 free sessions: in case you want to touch base with me, 2 free sessions for the future.
The Journey of Us - Life Time Journal: a couples journal to record all your most importan moments.
Time Capsule: a special gift box for you to keep all the momentos and memories that make you a unique couple.
Workbook & Guides: to use during the retreat and to keep for the future.

Book a call

Your Guide

My story

A Strong Foundation for Marriage

I wish someone had given me these tools when I got married. A strong foundation for marriage isn’t just about love—it’s about building a conscious, thriving partnership that can weather life’s challenges. One of my deepest motivations for becoming a VITA™ Coach was the desire to support couples in starting their journey together with intention, depth, and wisdom. Stronger marriages create happier families, and in turn, a more conscious, loving society.

With 25 years of marriage, raising children, and later navigating divorce, I have lived through the beauty and complexity of relationships. My coaching is rooted in both formal training and personal experience, helping couples cultivate deeper emotional, spiritual, and sexual connection from the very beginning of their journey together.

Let’s build a future of love, together.

Fequenly Ask Questions

What if I don’t see results? Becoming Us is designed for lasting impact. You’ll leave with actionable tools and a framework to continue strengthening your relationship long after the retreat ends.

We’re so busy—how can we commit to this? A thriving marriage is one of life’s greatest investments. This 3-day retreat is designed to create meaningful change in a short, immersive format.

We’ve already been struggling—will this still help us? Becoming Us is specifically designed for newlyweds and couples preparing for marriage. If you’ve been facing challenges early in your relationship, this retreat will provide valuable tools to help you build resilience, deepen your connection, and learn essential skills for repairing and growing together. While it’s not intended for couples in crisis or at all stages, it creates a safe and supportive space for you to start important conversations and lay the foundation for a thriving, lasting partnership.