The Body Knows: Relearning How to Listen

For as long as I can remember, I’ve known—somewhere deep inside—that the body and the mind were connected. I used to get stomach aches as a child every time something stressful happened. And that pattern never really went away. Over the years, my body always told me the truth, especially through my gut. It was trying to speak, long before I had the tools to truly understand what it was saying.
Later, through my studies, I began to learn how the physical body and the energetic body speak to each other constantly—and how that communication shapes our experience of life. One of the most transformative confirmations of this came when I read The Body Keeps the Score by DR. Bessel van der Kolk. He writes about how trauma isn’t just a mental story—it’s imprinted in our tissues, in our breath, in our nervous system.
We carry our histories in our muscles and bones, not just our memories. That book was a turning point.
In modern life, we’ve become so disconnected from our felt sense. We rely on the mind to explain everything. But healing doesn’t live in logic alone. The body is our vessel. It holds the present moment. And when we return to it—when we re-inhabit ourselves—we come back to now. And now is where all healing begins.
I first started to understand the body’s wisdom through movement—through yoga, and especially through QiGong, which has become such a grounding and essential practice in my life. These traditions taught me, long before I could explain it, that the body holds energy, emotion, and memory. In QiGong, you can literally feel your body recharge with energy—or release it. Tension, anxiety, fear—they all live in the body, and with the right practice, they can be accessed, honored, and gently released. The same is true for trauma: it’s there, held quietly in the tissues, waiting for safe release. These practices also teach us to listen. What does a “yes” feel like in your body? What about a “no”? Do you know? Can you feel it? Learning to recognize those signals is the first step toward living in alignment. Later, when I read The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, it felt like a powerful confirmation. His work gave me the language and scientific framework to describe what I had already experienced in my body: that trauma, emotion, and story live not only in our minds, but in our breath, our fascia, our nervous systems. It didn’t introduce the truth to me—it helped me speak it.
In practice with clients, it’s not about big, dramatic moments. It starts slowly—by guiding them back to their bodies with simple practices that help them reconnect and gently begin to listen.
Before any deeper healing can happen, there’s a process of remembering how to feel, how to sense, how to come home to themselves. And then, something shifts. A breath deepens, a hand moves instinctively to the heart or belly, the mind quiets—and suddenly there’s clarity, not from thinking, but from sensing. That’s when things begin to move. That’s when the healing truly begins.
For me, and for so many of my clients, the body has become a compass. It’s our inner guide—wise, responsive, clear. I’ve seen time and again that the answers we’re seeking are already within us. We just need the courage and the support to listen.
Not everyone arrives at this work easily. Especially in corporate or highly rational environments, people can be deeply disconnected from their bodies. But it’s a gentle process—of remembering, of coming home. I have had resistance myself, and I’ve walked alongside many who did. And every time they begin to reconnect, something opens. They start living with more presence, more discernment, more inner power.
What’s even more beautiful is seeing how these embodied shifts ripple out into teams, into leadership, into culture. A person who knows how to regulate themselves—who can pause, feel, and respond instead of react—is a person who transforms their relationships. And that’s just as true at home as it is at work. In fact, when this kind of emotional resilience and self-regulation becomes part of a company’s DNA, everything changes. Communication improves. Conflict dissolves more easily. Creativity flows. People lead with more heart.
It’s not about replacing the systems we already use—it’s about adding a deeper layer. One that makes everything else more sustainable, more human, more real.
Because when individuals thrive, families thrive. When teams thrive, cultures evolve. And when we return to our bodies, we begin to truly come alive.